With all things considered, at the moment my mother-in-law is going well. My husband and I have been talking about getting her more care in the near future. She is currently staying in our guest house so she is closer by. She was previously renting a small trailer home and it was a chore to get her to move. We would like to keep her here with us until her time comes, if possible. Is round the clock care from home an option if/when it comes to this? How much care will be provided?

We currently have a nurse/caregiver coming to our home once a day, 5 days throughout the week. She is meant to help my mother-in-law take her medication and do general check-ups. My husband and I both work and have a teenager to care for. She tells us that the woman is very mean to her and treats her like a child she doesn't want to deal with. To my husband and I, the woman is very professional and kind. She keeps insisting we get someone else but no one else is currently available for the schedule we need. Is there a way around this? Will we have to find a new care provider through a company? This nurse comes from the local hospital.

My mother-in-law is having issues with incontinence and she is refusing to use adult diapers out of being embarrassed. Her memory is not exactly healthy either so my husband and I find ourselves getting her to agree with using them yet back to refusing a few day later. I there anything we can do to help her?